What It Means to Love Israel: Let’s Start with America

I arrived this weekend in Jerusalem for the Board of Governors meeting of the Jewish Agency. I will be here for the next 14 days of meetings, visits, learning and exploration. During this time, I plan to tell a story about the work that we do at the Jewish Federation of St. Louis and why it matters. This is a story that begins with the lives that we are changing and the kind of Israel we are investing in to secure Israel’s future. But our work goes far beyond that.

The Jewish Federation of St. Louis supports Israel out of a deep commitment to, and some would call it love, for the Jewish people. With politics and discourse being so toxic today, a statement like “I love Israel” can invoke xenophobic images and blind patriotism. That is a real shame. I believe we have lost something valuable about our relationship with Israel, and the phrase “I love Israel” has become so politicized. As I start this two-week journey, I want to say something about what I mean.

Since you should always start with the familiar, let’s think about America.

My love of America is an expression of my feelings about the values upon which it stands, based on the principles and moral commitments upon which it was founded, and the ideals that made the nation what it is and what, I still believe, it is striving to be. In my understanding, this means a commitment to the ideals of individualism (Tocqueville’s self-interest properly understood) and freedom, and a certain minimalist view of justice. It means supporting the rights articulated in the U.S. Constitution that protect minorities from the tyranny of the majority, especially when those are minorities of religion and the majority is expressed through the power of the state.

When I declare that I love America, here is also what I do NOT mean. Loving America does NOT mean loving the political leadership that happens to be elected from time to time. Loving America does NOT require loving the laws that its lawmakers make, or the policies that its leadership pursues. Loving America does NOT require that we love President Bush or President Obama, nor does it require that we endorse Obamacare or Bush’s 2003 invasion of Iraq.

When people equate any of these things with love of the nation itself, our advocacy can become xenophobic and dangerous.

I don’t think this is controversial. The distinction between loving the values upon which a nation is founded and loving the government or the policies that the people enact is an essential distinction for establishing civil discourse. When those who love America disagree vehemently about policy, politics and leadership, their disagreements must be understood as disagreements about which person, policy or law best achieves the core values of America that we do love. For it is these values that we support when we declare an affinity with the nation.

And what about Israel?

When American Jews turn to Israel, there is a disconnect. The phrase “I love Israel” sadly now implies an endorsement of a particular politician or policy. That is a big loss. A huge loss. A loss that may explain part of why a new generation finds itself alienated from the Jewish state.

If we have any hope of finding common ground, we must reject the view that loving Israel requires the support of any particular politician, policy or law. Love of Israel does NOT require that we love Prime Minister Netanyahu or Isaac Herzog (the leader of the main opposition party). Love of Israel does NOT require us to support Israel’s policies in the West Bank or the extensive social welfare system that still exists. When those who love Israel disagree about these things, their disagreements must be understood as disagreements about which person, policy or law best achieves the core values of Israel. For it is these values that we support when we declare our love and solidarity with Israel.

So why do we have such a hard time maintaining the distinction between loving Israel’s core values and loving its leadership, policy and laws?

The challenge, I believe, is that many American Jews don’t have a clear story about what it means to love Israel based on its core values. They have been taught that disagreement will not be tolerated—particularly in public—and some mainstream Jewish organizations unfortunately continue to restrict debate by groups that take positions with which they disagree. Again, we don’t make that mistake in America: we know the values upon which it stands. But for us to foster a culture in which we can unabashedly “love” Israel, and unabashedly be committed to Israel, we need to explain first what fundamental values Israel embodies, what fundamental principles ground the existence of the state, and reinforce them even as we disagree about how those values should be pursued.

Just like we do in America.

So let me reflect on this personally. For me, the reason I love Israel, the reason that I stand committed to its existence, is in order to pursue what I see as its three core values (or perhaps categories of values).

First, I am committed to Israel because I believe that a Jewish state is necessary for the security and safety of the Jewish people. Historically, a state helps protect Jews against both statist and popular anti-Semitism. A Jewish state can stand up to governments that direct their institutions to destroy them and their communities. One can only wonder what would have happened had Israel been a vital Jewish nation before 1930. But ,we know what happened to the Jews in Arab nations whose governments forcibly removed them from the lands they were on after 1948 – they had a refuge because there was a Jewish state.

A Jewish state may also protect Jews better from popular anti-Semitism, even when a government might otherwise try to keep its Jewish population secure. While we are aware through history of barons and land owners who could not protect “their Jews” from the harm of the masses, the existence of popular anti-Semitism is not buried in the past. Having a Jewish state provides some protection of life and culture as it directs the resources of government to provide the protection otherwise unavailable.

Defense for its own sake is a basic value. The second reason I am committed to Israel is that it is essential for the flourishing of Jewish culture in all of its diversity, from secular humanism to religious orthodoxy. Securing a vibrant Jewish culture that celebrates Shabbat (whether around the table, in shul or on the beach in Tel Aviv); that speaks a common and distinct language; that create its own art forms; that builds educational institutions dedicated to the study of its literature (religious and otherwise); and that rejoices in the ebbs and flows of a shared calendar has created some of the most creative and innovative developments in Jewish life in two millennia. While some of this flourishing can happen in densely populated religious communities in the diaspora, the ability to share a truly pluralistic culture that extends into the secular world is simply more difficult and perhaps no longer possible in the modern world.

Finally, to commit to Israel, to love Israel, is to embrace the aspirations towards universal human rights and justice so that Israel may be a light unto the nations. Just as our American values are rooted in the principles by which the American nation and its founders established, these principles in Israel may be best articulated by its own Declaration of Independence, that to this day forms part of its “basic law.” I can do no better than to quote from the text:

“THE STATE OF ISRAEL will be open for Jewish immigration and for the Ingathering of the Exiles; it will foster the development of the country for the benefit of all its inhabitants; it will be based on freedom, justice and peace as envisaged by the prophets of Israel; it will ensure complete equality of social and political rights to all its inhabitants irrespective of religion, race or sex; it will guarantee freedom of religion, conscience, language, education and culture; it will safeguard the Holy Places of all religions; and it will be faithful to the principles of the Charter of the United Nations.”

The founders of the state that I am committed to supporting, the state that I am proud to say I love, the state to which I would happily attest to being a Zionist for, is a state that aspires to all three of these principles:

  1. The security of the Jewish people.
  2. The flourishing of Jewish culture.
  3. The promotion of principles of universal justice and human rights.

Does Israel today live up to these three principles? No, it does not, nor has it ever. As principles, as ideals, they are aspirational, things we aspire to achieve. Sometimes it gets closer than at others. But wouldn’t we say the same thing about America? I would readily admit that both America and Israel are going through some tough, even dangerous times right now relative to their own aspirations. But, I will certainly not back down nor run from my commitments simply because they are not realized.

Indeed, it is precisely when a nation veers far from its own ideals that true patriots rise to help it get back on course.

As I transverse the country over the next two weeks, I hope to draw out these three values in a more explicit way through this blog and on Facebook. I promise you, I won’t avoid the difficult questions. But, I also promise you I won’t avoid celebrating the beauty and diversity that is here.

If you join me, perhaps we can together create a place where open dialogue about the hardest questions can be developed. Perhaps we can create the space we need in American Jewish life to recognize that a love of Israel will encourage an enormous variety of views, ideas and approaches towards the realization of its three key values.

I look forward to hearing from you along the way.

Comments

24 responses to “What It Means to Love Israel: Let’s Start with America”

  1. David Mollen Avatar
    David Mollen

    “Israel will guarantee freedom of religion…” Let’s talk about my religious freedom. I a a religious American Reform Jew.

    My problem with what you have said is that not only has Israel not ever lived up to this ideal, as you said, when treating non-Orthodox Jews, but that evidently this is not because of Israel’s leadership (since it has been true since 1948), nor is it true because of Israel’s Orthodox population (since they are a minority and minorities don’t control democracies).

    It is true because the majority of Israel’s Jewish population has no real respect for religious freedom, at least when it comes to non-Orthodox Jews. And as a result, Israel doesn’t even have a constitution! Thanks, but no thanks. My loyalties are to the United States, whose Constution and population zealously guard my religious rights. I think that’s the real way to love ALL of the Jewish people.

    1. Andrew Rehfeld Avatar
      Andrew Rehfeld

      Thank you David, I appreciate the feedback. You might enjoy Chaim Gans’s book “A Just Zionism” in thinking about these issues. The concentration of power in one religious faction is a relatively new phenomena here, and is particularly concerning because of the demography. Thanks again, Andrew

  2. Carol shain Avatar
    Carol shain

    You expressed exactly what I have been feeling and thinking.

    1. Andrew Rehfeld Avatar
      Andrew Rehfeld

      Thank you Carol! –Andrew

  3. dpe@jewishgrowth.org Avatar

    Beautifully articulated what most of us believe – left and right.

    Rabbi Dov Peretz Elkins, rabbi emeritus, The Jewish Center of Princeton NJ, now resiging in Jerusalem as a new oleh.

    1. Andrew Rehfeld Avatar
      Andrew Rehfeld

      Thank you Rabbi!

  4. Maureen Tighe-Brown Avatar
    Maureen Tighe-Brown

    Who are you?

    I can’t locate your name!

    1. Andrew Rehfeld Avatar
      Andrew Rehfeld

      Thank you! I am Andrew Rehfeld, the President and CEO of the Jewish Federation of St. Louis. Glad you enjoyed the post

  5. Gerald F Robbins Avatar
    Gerald F Robbins

    The author has put in writing a very clear understanding of the difference between what it means to support the existence of a country and also be able to question whether it is practicing those ideals or needs to persue a different course. When we love someone we can blindly let them continue to behave in a manner not beneficial to themselves and those around them or help them to improve who they are. These are difficult life decisions that don’t always have one correct answer.

  6. Ival Kovner Avatar
    Ival Kovner

    Our temple’s Chai group hosted an environmental lecture that sought to link belefs with actions. Each participant was asked to place seven cards in order of importance. I placed “Love of Israel” third and considered second place. All eight women in my group disagreed and placed that card seventh (last). . As a adult convert four years ago, I was surprised but could not clearly articulate my reasons for placing this card above other cards that were basically related to actions that were specifically spelling out “acts of kindness”. I felt that “Love of Israel” embodied these acts – and your article provided that encompassing argument for the ideal as we pray Sh’ma Israel – we are called and we respond as we are this “Israel” in the ideal as we seek to move ever closer through our action one together marked as the Chosen and in union with one another. I will share your rationale with my Chai group and yes such cards delineating actions such as “cotributing to those in need”, “working towards cleaner environment”, “protecting animals from harm” are all important, “Loving Israel” means first to truly love ourselves and we all know that from that self acceptance comes our ability to transform and heal a broken world. I believe this is the core concept I have taken into my beliefs through study for conversion, achieving a group b’nai mitzvah two months ago after two years of study, and an Aliyah to Israel where my husband and I sealed our vows originally shared thirty years ago this year – but recommitted under a hupah three years ago after I became the adopted daughter of About aham and Sarah. This was a very special article indeed that I will share with my Chai group.

    1. Andrew Rehfeld Avatar
      Andrew Rehfeld

      Thank you Ival for sharing that memory and reflection. Very much appreciate it. –AR

  7. Ellen Baken Avatar
    Ellen Baken

    This is a very well written piece and I look forward to seeing more on this complicated issue. I hope your trip is both joyous and insightful. America is going through its own troubling times in terms if it’s leaders not supporting the values of our founders. Your analogy was spot on. Travel safely.

    1. Andrew Rehfeld Avatar
      Andrew Rehfeld

      Thank you Ellen. Almost time to come home! It’s been a productive visit. –Andrew

  8. Aline Fisher Avatar
    Aline Fisher

    Really so needed and to the point! I will follow your writing the next two weeks. You have helped me put into words my own feelings that have been seemingly confused – especially these last couple weeks. Todah Rabah and safe journey!

    1. Andrew Rehfeld Avatar
      Andrew Rehfeld

      Thank you Aline. You can follow me in “real time” via Facebook. I will be posting new reflections here after a bit. Thanks again. Andrew

  9. Miriam Turner Avatar
    Miriam Turner

    Well said!

  10. yaakov shechter Avatar
    yaakov shechter

    Very well said. Please note that much of your sentiments are shared by J Street, the proponents of “tough love” for Israel, and by the progressive Israeli press Haaretz.

  11. Ashley Ouellette Avatar

    Great essay. I believe it too!

  12. Jean Avatar
    Jean

    An excellent well-articulated account of my own position – and that of many others. We’ll keep trying to spread it around

  13. Robert Nierman Avatar
    Robert Nierman

    Thanks for expressing this critical concept for Jews in America to grasp. Our love for The Land should be as unconditional as a parent for a child. Liking her behaviors is another matter, one to be scrutinized with civility and sensitivity.
    Have a great trip.

    1. Andrew Rehfeld Avatar
      Andrew Rehfeld

      Robert, that’s a really nice analogy. Had not thought about it that way. Might use it in the future ! Thanks for responding. Andrew

  14. Peter Buchsbaum Avatar
    Peter Buchsbaum

    Very well stated.

  15. Ron Bing Avatar
    Ron Bing

    I thought it might be interesting to share some observations after Judy and I returned from a three week visit to Israel where we lived together with my cousins for most of the time. A little family history: My parents came to Canada in 1933 from Germany. My uncles and aunts moved to Palestine before Israel was established in the 1930’s, so my cousins grew up in Israel and have lived there all of their lives.
    Observation 1 – Great Divide
    There seems to be a great divide between the religious Jews and the secular Jews. It is interesting that my father’s “Bing” relatives fall under the former and my mother’s “Aron” relatives fall under the latter. Most Israeli’s are secular Jews, however the religious Jews seem to exercise a disproportionate amount of power in government and their birthrate is much higher. There appears to be a lack of respect between the two factions. In particular the secular Jews do not appreciate the ultra-orthodox who are exempt from military service. All men enter the military for three years at age 18 and women at age 19 for two years. After that they are in the reserve for several weeks each year.
    Observation 2 – Jews & Arabs
    It seems that for the most part the Arabs and the Jews do not respect each other, although they live and work together. I was told that 99% of the Arabs live in harmony with the Jewish population, but terrorism arises out of the 1%. I could sense prejudice between the groups by some of the comments made by my cousins. Apparently they continue to teach hatred towards Jews in the Arab schools. Many Arabs are Israeli citizens. Many Arabs who live outside the Green Line enter Israel for work. Arabs seem to work in occupations that the Israeli’s don’t want.
    Observation 3 – Peace Process
    Most of the Israeli’s I spoke with are pessimistic about the peace process. They believe there will never be peace in their life time. We were in Jerusalem when President Trump came for a visit. The streets were closed to both vehicle and pedestrian traffic for some time so we ended up waiting and walking quite a bit that day. Judy saw President Trump in his limousine as he passed by in front of the Imbal Hotel. I am an optimist, so I believe there will be peace after the implementation of a “two state solution.” I was interviewed by a Channel 5 Israeli TV reporter who wanted me to say that “I love Trump” and she would give me a T shirt. I spoke about my ideas on the peace process coming from far away and how they differed from my cousins who do not believe there will ever be peace as they are too close to the action. In the end the reporter said; “He loves Trump” and gave me the T shirt.
    Observation 4 – Security
    One Friday evening we were visiting the daughter of my cousin who lives in Kibbutz Yechiam where we celebrated Shabbat with their family in their new modern house. They showed me their “security room” which is a bomb shelter constructed of thick reinforced concrete with a steel entrance door. It was explained that in the event of a rocket attack this would keep the family safe providing it was not a direct hit. Apparently all new houses must include a “security room” in order to receive a construction permit. This is a sobering thought. While driving on several modern express highways we passed trucks hauling huge Israeli army tanks. This was rather a strange site for a Canadian. Heavy steel guard posts have recently been installed in front of bus stops in order to stop a terrorist from driving into waiting passengers. Israel spends 30% of their budget on the military. Canada spends 1% and President Trump wants us to increase our spending to 2%.
    Observation 5 – Melting Pot
    Several of my relative’s children are married to Sephardic Jews from Morocco, Turkey, etc. Israel has become a “melting pot” for Jews from around the globe.
    Observation 6 – High Tech in the Middle East
    Israel has become a leader in “high tech” industries. In some ways it is a modern country, however the life here is quite different from Canada because it is located in the Middle East. It seems they still allow smoking in restaurants!
    Observation 7 – Western Wall
    We visited the Kotel (Western Wall) several times when in Jerusalem. This is considered the holiest site for Jews because it is closest to where the “Holy of Holy” was kept during the time of the 2nd Temple. Structurally the Western Wall is actually the western side of the huge shoebox-like structure that was constructed by Herod to raise up the ground where the 2nd Temple was built. Unfortunately Jewish women continue to be restricted in their desire to pray at this site. At B’nai Tikvah we face our “Western Wall” when we pray in the main sanctuary.
    Observation 8 – Secular Jews
    Secular Jews living in Israel do not practice their religion as we do at Temple B’nai Tikvah. For the most part their Judaism consists of getting together with their families for Shabbat and holidays. Jewish holidays are observed in Israel similar to Easter and Christmas in Canada. In Israel weekends are Friday and Saturday. Thirty years ago the Minister of Education removed the teaching of Jewish religion from public schools, so most secular Jews do not know much about their religion. Strange situation for a Jewish state! Secular Israelis live their Judaism through Jewish holidays but not through a synagogue.
    9 – Conclusion
    I hope that you have learned a little about living in Israel by reading these observations. You may agree or disagree. The idea for this article is to stimulate discussion on the differences of Jewish life in Calgary versus Israel. Perhaps one day we can visit Israel together with our rabbi to learn more about what it means to be a Jew in Jerusalem, Tel Aviv or Calgary.
    Ron Bing

  16. Andrew Rehfeld Avatar
    Andrew Rehfeld

    Ron–thank you for your thoughtful reflections and experiences. There is too much here and too much great nuance that you captured to simply agree or disagree. I’ll just be grateful for your willingness to share your story. It would be an honor to connect sometime in Calgary or Tel Aviv! All best, Andrew

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